
Sermon: Raising Godly Children in a Modern World
Scripture Reading: Ephesians 6:4
“Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.”
Introduction
Parenting is one of the greatest responsibilities God entrusts to His people. In Ephesians 6:4, Paul addresses a critical aspect of family life—how parents, particularly fathers, should nurture their children. This verse emphasizes discipline and instruction in the Lord, but it also warns against provoking children to anger. In today’s world, where distractions, cultural pressures, and moral decline are rampant, the Seventh-day Adventist family is called to stand firm in raising God-fearing children.
This sermon will explore three key principles:
- Avoiding behaviors that provoke children to anger.
- Nurturing children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.
- The promise and hope of raising children for eternity.
1. Avoid Provoking Your Children to Anger
Paul begins with a warning to fathers: “Do not provoke your children to anger.” While the Bible calls both parents to be active in raising children, Paul specifically highlights the role of fathers, perhaps because they were often authoritarian figures in the Greco-Roman world.
What Does It Mean to Provoke Children to Anger?
Provoking children to anger can result from:
- Harsh Discipline: Punishing out of frustration or anger rather than love can cause resentment.
- Neglect: Failing to provide emotional support and attention leaves children feeling unloved.
- Unrealistic Expectations: Demanding perfection leads to frustration and discouragement.
- Inconsistency: When parents are hypocritical or inconsistent in their behavior, children feel confused and betrayed.
Biblical Examples
King Saul’s relationship with his son, Jonathan, provides a cautionary tale. Saul’s jealousy and instability caused division in their family. On the other hand, God calls us to emulate the nurturing love seen in the father of the prodigal son, who showed grace and forgiveness (Luke 15:11-32).
Application for SDA Parents
As Adventist parents, it is essential to:
- Speak with kindness and patience. Avoid words that belittle or discourage.
- Be emotionally present. Take time to understand your child’s needs and struggles.
- Model Christ-like behavior. Show integrity in Sabbath observance, prayer, and daily living.
2. Bring Them Up in the Discipline and Instruction of the Lord
Paul continues by urging parents to nurture their children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord. This involves guiding children spiritually, emotionally, and morally.
Discipline in the Lord
Discipline is not punishment but training. Proverbs 22:6 says, “Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it.” Godly discipline includes:
- Consistency: Set clear boundaries based on biblical principles.
- Love: Discipline with the goal of restoration, not retaliation (Hebrews 12:6).
- Example: Children learn more from what they see than what they hear.
Instruction in the Lord
Instruction involves teaching children about God, His Word, and His ways. Deuteronomy 6:7 commands us to teach God’s commandments diligently to our children—talking about them at home, on the road, and during daily routines.
SDA Principles in Teaching
- Bible Study: Make family worship a priority. Teach stories of faith, such as Joseph, Daniel, and Esther, who stood firm amidst challenges.
- Prayer: Encourage personal and family prayer time.
- Sabbath Observance: Create meaningful Sabbath experiences that teach children to delight in God’s holy day.
- Health Message: Teach the Adventist health principles as a way of honoring God with their bodies.
Ellen G. White’s Counsel
Ellen White emphasizes the home as the first school. In Child Guidance, she writes, “The greatest evidence of the power of Christianity that can be presented to the world is a well-ordered, well-disciplined family.” Parents are to cultivate an environment where children see Christ reflected in their actions.
3. Raising Children for Eternity
The ultimate goal of parenting is not just to prepare children for a successful life on earth but for eternal life. Parents are stewards, entrusted with shaping souls for God’s kingdom.
Teaching Children to Know God
- Introduce Them to Jesus: Share the story of salvation and how much Jesus loves them.
- Teach Obedience Out of Love: Help them understand that obeying God is an act of love, not fear (John 14:15).
- Encourage Faithful Service: Involve children in church activities and community service.
Facing Modern Challenges
Today’s children face unique challenges, including:
- Digital Distractions: Teach children to balance technology with spiritual growth. Limit screen time and encourage outdoor activities.
- Peer Pressure: Equip children with the courage to say no to ungodly influences, as Daniel did in Babylon (Daniel 1:8).
- Moral Relativism: Ground them in the unchanging truth of God’s Word.
Hope for Struggling Parents
Parenting can be overwhelming, but God’s grace is sufficient. Philippians 4:13 assures us, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.” Seek God’s wisdom through prayer and claim His promises for your children.
The Role of the Church
The church family plays a crucial role in supporting parents. Sabbath School, Pathfinders, and Adventist education are valuable resources for spiritual growth. As a congregation, we must mentor young people and model Christ’s love.
Conclusion
Ephesians 6:4 is both a challenge and an encouragement. God calls parents to avoid actions that provoke anger and to bring up their children in His discipline and instruction. By relying on God’s strength and following biblical principles, we can nurture children who will stand firm in their faith amidst a turbulent world.
As SDA parents, let us remember that raising children is not just about earthly success but about preparing them for eternity. Reflect on the promise in Isaiah 54:13: “All your children shall be taught by the Lord, and great shall be the peace of your children.” May we partner with God in this sacred task and experience the joy of seeing our children walk in His truth.
Call to Action
- Parents: Commit to modeling Christ-like love and discipline in your homes.
- Church Family: Support and mentor young families in their journey of parenting.
- Children: Honor your parents and grow in the knowledge of the Lord.
Let us pray for God’s guidance as we strive to raise children for His glory. Amen.
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